So, for more than a week, I changed my carrier from being a maid to a babysitter.
I like kids because they are cute. Awwwwh.... cliche answer!
One more reason why I like kids is because they are so clean and innocent, and you have the ability to paint them. You are their first teacher. You can influence them greatly. Positively.... or negatively.
And they are cute!
There is an easy way to to take care of kids. You just make them do what you ask them to do by force. They may cry but who cares, it is easier for you.
But you can do it the other way. The haaaard way.
Give your kid a lot of love.
The parents, I used to think they spoiled the girl too much but hey, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us to treat kids kindly. I observe how they treat their child, how they didn't force their daughter to do anything they want but let she do willingly instead. Like taking bath.. etc. It is quite hard, but it gives good impact to the kid. She grows up happily and there are times when she can become such a sweetie.
I now learned about PATIENCE.
Patience is a virtue indeed. Patience needs time and maturity. Your patience will be tested constantly until your last breath.
When you take care of children, you will learn how to be patience with them when:
1) They want you to do what they want
2) They don't want to do what you ask them to do
3) When they make a mess and you clean it. Then they make a mess again
4) When you want to feed them and they are running and playing around
etc..... etc...
The key for everything? SABAR.
Wassalam..
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