Tarbiah Babysitter

Assalamualaikum,

So, for more than a week, I changed my carrier from being a maid to a babysitter.

I like kids because they are cute. Awwwwh.... cliche answer!
One more reason why I like kids is because they are so clean and innocent, and you have the ability to paint them. You are their first teacher. You can influence them greatly. Positively.... or negatively.
And they are cute!

There is an easy way to to take care of kids. You  just make them do what you ask them to do by force. They may cry but who cares, it is easier for you.

But you can do it the other way. The haaaard way.

Give your kid a lot of love.

The parents, I used to think they spoiled the girl too much but hey, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us to treat kids kindly. I observe how they treat their child, how they didn't force their daughter to do anything they want but let she do willingly instead. Like taking bath.. etc. It is quite hard, but it gives good impact to the kid. She grows up happily and there are times when she can become such a sweetie.

I now learned about PATIENCE.

Patience is a virtue indeed. Patience needs time and maturity. Your patience will be tested constantly until your last breath.

When you take care of children, you will learn how to be patience with them when:

1) They want you to do what they want

2) They don't want to do what you ask them to do

3) When they make a mess and you clean it. Then they make a mess again

4) When you want to feed them and they are running and playing around

etc..... etc...

The key for everything?                 SABAR.

Wassalam..

Surviving a Heartbreak

Assalamualaikum..

You know, I once liked a guy very much. An average looking kind-hearted guy. I liked him because he is kind.. and nice.. and I could feel the chemistry between us. Kinda cute too (ssssshhhhh..)

And then.. I was told that he is not available. It means that I can't pursue him anymore.

When I first discovered about that, I was brokenhearted to my surprise. I even unfriend him on fb, how immature of me! I was not-so-quickly recovered. It's amazing how 'love' can cause such a pain.

But hey, I am still alive!

I analysed the reason why I liked him so much. So these are the reasons (maybe) :

1) I really rarely communicate with guys, but last year I need to deal with him about some business. So, yeah. Butterfly in my stomach.

2) He is really kind and it's quite rare to find a really nice guy like that. The kind that makes you feel secure if you want him to be your partner for life. Lol

3) We just 'clique'. Or am I the only one who feels like that? 

4) I thought that the feeling was mutual ! Well, I'm just the only one who feels like that.

It's okay, que sera sera.

But wait, I have a confession to make! Actually.. I do stalked him now and then. I even used my senior's fb account to stalk him. (Senorita, please log out of your fb account everytime you use my laptop)

Yes, it's fate that keeps us apart (Ceewah). And.. and.. I think he is too good for me. I myself know my weakness, my flaws....

Time heals... but I need more time.

I hope that he can find his happiness in this dunya and hereafter.

Wassalam.

Being A Maid

Assalamualaikum,

Although my blog is called BeingAPrincess, but sometimes, I can't escape being a maid.

What? I don't want to be a spoiled princess! Hewhew..

One of my senior fractured her leg a few weeks before her exam and my exam finished last week. So I got plenty of free time.... and here I am, a princess with an apron saving a damsel in distress.

Basically, what I did is:
1) sleep
2) cook
3) eat
4) refer number 1

My diet and my exercise regime has been neglected. And now I'm a yoghurt freak. Not the healthy yoghurt but the banana flavoured with choco balls kind of yoghurt.

It's fun staying here. Lot's of laughing buddies..... and delicious food.

Being a maid is not so bad....... although, I plan to hire a maid in the future.

Well, a Princess needs a maid!

A Princess Needs Her Prince

Assalamualaikum.....

What a controversial post title! Well, I can write anything I want. Hewhew..

Every girl has their own criteria in finding their prince charming.
When I was younger.. my criteria is handsome, rich, beriman. Well, I believe all the girls my age think like that.

Then, I get older and my criteria is someone who do the right thing at the right time to the right person. Wow..... so impossible right?

Then..  last year, my criteria is merely someone who have the same way of thinking with me. Se fikrah gitu...

Now, I realized that.. our fate, 'jodoh' has been planned by God and we will never can predict who is destined for us. We can't even be certain whether we will live for.. let's say, another 1 month?

Basically what I want to say is, my prince is my future husband. So, whoever your husband is, he is your prince! Simple as that.

p/s: But still, my type is someone who has chinese/oriental face and cute. Preferably tall and cool. Such an eye candy! (LOVE)

Wassalam..